For most people, this is the hardest part --even in the days when they weren't escorted, Bianca and Rob were. "We don't walk up to someone in a bar and say, 'hey, you look a little weird. Want to go home? '" he said. This is one way if you have a huge ball. A better approach is 3rder, a tinder threesome, or the "find the threesome dating" section of OkCupid and Plenty of Fish. You might want to meet up with a potential third person ahead of time, or at least FaceTime, to see if you're all wavering.